Pretty much anything along the lines of "I'm so sorry". There's nothing anyone can say that will make this better, but to genuinely say you care means the world.
I'll say that I've been pretty lucky in that I haven't really had anyone say something really terrible to me about what happened. Most everyone we know loved Luke in their heart already...and they share our pain with us. That's comforting just to know that.
Hey Jen,
ReplyDeleteIt's Emily from Glow - the one who also lost a September 10 baby.
I just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you and your son. I know how hard it is.
Just know that I'm thinking of you and remembering Luke tonight as I remember Mia.
(((Hugs)))
Hey Emily--
DeleteI'm right there with you, thinking of you and Mia <3 Hugs right back.