tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763104285008185599.post1898782644222118310..comments2023-10-24T08:20:15.923-07:00Comments on Dear Luke...: Thoughts that I bet you haven't hadJenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17635247963030386492noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763104285008185599.post-5008025123675467402016-02-14T06:18:50.250-08:002016-02-14T06:18:50.250-08:00Sending you lots of luck for your double rainbow n...Sending you lots of luck for your double rainbow next month. We are hopefully expecting our rainbow in the summer and I've had these same thoughts. We won't be telling our eldest about this one until she is - hopefully - here (or until she's figured it out, anyway!) but I have had some hard hypothetical conversations: Me: 'would you like a baby brother or sister if we can get you one? Um - I mean ANother brother or sister?' Her: 'yes, but can this one come home?' Ugh. This life. And I know how it feels to be forever pregnant. This one has been the roughest physically and (well, duh of course) emotionally. Life, Loss and Little Thingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04830548255167235625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763104285008185599.post-17749444785791202422016-02-11T14:01:02.232-08:002016-02-11T14:01:02.232-08:00LOL. I guess I titled this thinking about MOST peo...LOL. I guess I titled this thinking about MOST people. The reality is, pretty much most of us connected here HAVE had this thought. Or something similar.<br /><br />I just hate it cause I feel like I can't win. But I guess that's what happens when you've lost this much, right?<br /><br />I can't even believe it's a month away. I owe you a text too!Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17635247963030386492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763104285008185599.post-23278031407464797602016-02-11T13:59:04.395-08:002016-02-11T13:59:04.395-08:00Thanks, Aurelia. I know that most of us around the...Thanks, Aurelia. I know that most of us around these parts get it, but most people don't, and they're totally, totally lucky.<br /><br />Hope you and your little one are doing well? I haven't been around too much and just saw you had your son. Hope everything is alright ♥Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17635247963030386492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763104285008185599.post-96015299675576412016-02-11T11:18:28.821-08:002016-02-11T11:18:28.821-08:00Oh I've had them. When Bowie was born, I refu...Oh I've had them. When Bowie was born, I refused to dress Ben in the "big brother" shirt. Even though he was a big brother again, it just felt wrong to me. And Josie has a few "little sister" things and I always wish it said "littlest sister." That would make me feel better. But I don't think those exist. I hate that we both have these thoughts. But I am pumped for you to welcome baby #3 in less than a month... Woah!Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06544769404944379041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763104285008185599.post-64704271725676038032016-02-11T09:20:52.592-08:002016-02-11T09:20:52.592-08:00I've had some of these thoughts, or t least si...I've had some of these thoughts, or t least similar ones. It just isn't fair or right. I'm so sorry that you're faced with them. I wish you all the best as you welcome this new baby. Aureliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17528817051363589747noreply@blogger.com